LOVE FROM A WOMAN’S PERSPECTIVE
Written by Sheila Ocloo
“Love” from a woman, is my complete definition of love. If you are a man reading this, there are
two things involved. Either you are one of us or you just want to spy and know the juiciest
gossip on women. Anyway, you are welcome, Darling!
Let me start by tackling this issue from the top to the bottom. It is no news that a woman loves
money. This statement is very much true. We mostly prefer money over deep sexual
penetrations. Sometimes even sex can just be a bore to us especially if it lasts too long or too
short. Trust me when I say, most women will prefer the very short ones when they are broke
but expect the HELL of a marathon when they are not. Can one then say that all women are
materialistic because they all love and adore money? The answer is NO. The truth is a woman
will not spend over 30% of money she has on herself. On the contrary, she aims at solving
pertinent issues in her home, within her family and even her environment. The most important
of all is she will like to enter into a business venture of a kind. Think of this like a tap with
constant running water. She simply does not want her source of money supply to run out. Can
you then imagine how a woman will feel when she is married to a stingy wealthy man? In my
candid opinion, it is either her husband is a wizard, poor or he is a thief (stealing resources). My
advice to all husbands out there, give all your monies to your wives. She will respect you all the
days of your life (especially if she is industrious).
When a woman loves another, she loves with her soul, she loves with her heart, and she loves
with her body. This makes her so vulnerable to her recipient. One can say or compare this to a
spell been cast of her. In our local dialect you can say, juju, voodoo or tukpe. The difference
with this to lust is that, this type can last forever and can take years to fade away, depending on
how you handle her. A woman in love will follow all your instructions and follow you anywhere.
She will stand and fight for you when the need arises. She will give you all she has including
properties. Bible describes this as SUBMISSION. Submissiveness is not automatic because we
are women and as such society and religion should demand from us. It is an involuntary
response to love. Without love never expect submission, expect WAR. A woman in love is A
STRONG SPIRIT caged in a “ceramic vessel” (if I must compare). Thus, in this instance, she is
Intimately speaking, her heart controls her, not her mind. She expects a full measure of her
recipient’s love. Good communication must be the order of the day. No information must elude
her. In doing this, you now prepare the grounds for intimacy. Most women will prefer
occasional cuddling, hugging and quick kisses instead of a continuous 48-hour round sex. The
nitti gritty of how you help her, interact with her, speaks more (even much more than money).
In conclusion, never compare a woman to the other. Even though we are different, we are all
the same. Never take the love of a woman for granted. Money is just the tool. The minute that
ceramic vessel is broken and her strong spirit or strong will is released, the first thing she will
realize is how ugly you really are! She will for the first time see the real color of your teeth. “My
goodness! It was yellow all along, how come I thought it was white?” she tells herself. Trust
me, that day will be the beginning of re-enacting HELL on earth. A woman is the most
dangerous weapon on earth, when she is without love.